Wednesday, January 10, 2007

激情的逝去=愛情的結束?

經常聽人說,相戀久了感情會變淡,會無味,有一日忽然覺得對方像陌生人也就分手了。但拍拖其中一個目的,唔係為左培養感情咩?理應相久得越耐大家的感情會更深就算失去了初相識時的激情換之而來的會是更深厚的感情。何時人們將「激情」錯認為「愛情」?彼此失去了新鮮感,失去了驚喜,一切為對方的付出變得很理所當然一切的愛的舉動都成為了習慣激情就淡去人們就以為愛情已逝去?唔知大家有冇試過長達幾年的感情?當激情淡去,愛情變化為感情的形狀那份熟悉感,安全感,彼此完全了解的那種滿足感都好值得去珍藏做得到「老夫老妻」其實比任何人都幸福因為,要維持一份這麼長久的感情並不容易啊尤其這個年代,即食的、貪玩的、另有目的的、肉慾的、虛假的所謂「戀愛」比比皆是。所以,因為與情人的感情淡了,就在外面交了新歡。有沒有想過,用一段苦苦經營了多年的感情為了交換一段霎眼流逝的激情還以為自己換取到真愛這種人是天真?還是可憐?
i really agree here..many ppl will just think love will lost after couple of year...but why not think of there is something more important beside of love. After couple of year maybe a relationship will lost the feeling of love but there must be something more important than love?maybe feeling?or maybe some others better thing?
i always believe that love may not stand for too many years but i do believe when love is gone there must be something more better comes out for example maybe you already treat your partner as part of ur family, i guess this feeling even better than love..
i rather a relationship stable and not just a spark and only will last for few moment...i just want a relationship that can last long and get someone that love me, care of me, appreciate me and stable...don have to be roses, presants and a lot of fancy thing in my relationship

1 comment:

Yenny said...

人就是不懂得珍惜自己所拥有的。
我想,我也是一样的吧?